GRACE

Reverend Fatawu called and asked me to visit him. I knew something was going to be asked of me. I went and we sat together. He reminded me how a few months ago, Faako church had a “Marriage Night”, where there was talk on how to help your marriage, what does God say about marriage and a time for questions and answers. He told me there were about 60 people and 3 couples were not even Christians. That led to his question to me. Would I be willing to do a “Singles Night” or a talk on singleness? Usually, I hem and haw about things. Usually, I think there is no way I can do whatever is asked. Usually, I just say that is not my thing and volunteer someone else. 😊 And, usually, I end up doing what is asked. And, also in this case, when he asked me about the singles night, I immediately said YES. That was right up my alley and something that is important.

I sent out prayer requests to everyone. People near, people far. We prayed for the Holy Spirit to do what He wants. I was encouraged in the Word from the book of Jonah. When Jonah told the people what God wanted to say, it was a handful of words or something. Something like, “Repent or in 40 days God will destroy you.” Those words brought a city into repentance. People cried out, they wore sackcloth, they fasted, and they even made their animals put on sackcloth. There hearts were moved. It was not the delivery of the message; it was the Word of God. I was like, “OK, Lord, I will do my best and say what you give me, and you are the one working in people’s hearts.” That gave me peace.

The night came and I went to speak. Um, it was more than a handful of words ha ha! During my talk I could see smirks on people’s faces when they caught my examples or a chuckle when they knew exactly what I was talking about. (I love those moments!)

After I spoke there was a time for questions. One question was asked, “How did you remain a virgin, I mean, HOW?” In the talk I openly shared that I was. I heard his question, but I could not form an answer. The only thing that came to my mind was, “GRACE”. I paused a bit. I did say that it was God, but I told him it sounded so trite. But really, it was. I also added that I am a 4th generation Christian, I have had good influences around me growing up, and I have women in my family who share their struggles openly. But, still, it was GRACE.

The next day I went over that question again. How did I do that? How have I remained a virgin? I don’t know. You see, for many years I put myself in stupid, dangerous situations regarding men because of some need in me that I thought it would fill. It never filled me. I went as close to the line as I could go without giving my whole self away justifying everything. I struggled with this cycle for several decades. And so, hearing that question jolted something inside of me, something that I had taken for granted. All those years of sin, how am I still standing?  I really could only respond with, “GRACE”. And I cried. I cried because God’s love was thrown upon me. It’s like I was seeing how many years He was pursuing me, and I kept waving Him away. How many years did He watch me, telling me thru His Word or thru others that I didn’t need to put myself out there like that? How many times did He welcome me back? How many times did I tell Him I would never do it again…and then did? How much GRACE has He given to me? I cannot even count. I was so reminded of God’s amazingness. I told my sister that we could never invent a God like this. A God who is slow to anger and compassionate. A God that lets me turn away though He knows He is the best thing for me. The day after my talk was a day of crying-joy. I had tears the whole day remembering how patient He is with me, how much He has forgiven me, how He has never left me, and yet, how I, myself, turn people away after just a couple of failings!! I am so impatient. I have such a lack of grace. Oh, Sherri, Sherri… (Sigh) But the joy that rides on those tears are the same. God is patient with me. God has forgiven me. God has never left me, even when I am short with others. How can He be like that? How can He love like that?

I was blessed to be able to share my experiences of being single and how I got through hard times. But I was blessed more to feel deeply the GRACE and love lavished on me in my ridiculousness. I was blessed that God worked in me and continues to work in me. It is now weeks later, and I still am aware of the GRACE and love on me. And, yes, the tears still come.

I am grateful. Thank you for praying.

Wet Season

I look at the two seasons here: dry and wet. Dry is brown, dusty, and hot. Wet is green, humid and hot. But there is a lushness of life when plants have water to grow. I see cattle, which normally remind me of the children’s Bible picture books of cattle from the story of Joseph. The story is about when Pharaoh has dreams with seven thin cows and seven fat cows. As a child I remember how scrawny those cows looked. And every time I see cows here, I usually get that picture in my mind. But during the rains cattle and other animals have a lot to graze on and still are skinny but not cartoon-picture-skinny, if that makes sense.

There are beautiful shades of green in the wet season. And the sun and the clouds just make it a masterpiece. Yes, humidity increases, but there are times of cool breezes after a rain and a time when you just take a deep breath and sigh with contentment.

Now, the rain here is not like some soft, gentle falling, angel song. Ok, there are a few. Most times, though, it is a torrent and it can tear roofs off of houses and wash away roads. Which leads me to my story.

There is a widow in a village that Samuel and I travel to every week. It is a dirt road. They have no electricity, though the poles have gone up. In the past there have been times when I wondered if my car would make it. And, yep, this season, there is no way. A small bridge has collapsed, two places are flooded, parts are washed away and one place the mud is so thick my 4x4 car does not have a chance. So, that leaves a motorcycle.

SIM Ghana, who I serve with, has a rule about women riding on the back of a man’s motorcycle. I have to be very aware as a single woman of the culture I live in. I want to live above it and not give any reason for reproach. Riding with a man can give the impression there is a relationship. Thankfully, Samuel has been to my neighborhood and my house many times. (Though, if he is alone, we talk outside on the veranda.) My neighbors know him. Even when I am in the States, he comes to check on the house and make sure everything is fine. He talks with the people around too. Since people know him and me, when they see me on the back of his motorcycle, we don’t think there are any ill impressions. Also, the village is on my side of town. We don’t even have to ride on big streets, face traffic, or consider the stares of random people. Another rule SIM Ghana and Ghana has, which is obvious, is wearing a helmet. I have been asked by some of my girl friends to hop on their bike and they will take me somewhere. I usually reply, “I need a helmet.” and I refuse to ride if I don’t have mine. People drive so crazy around here. In one day, I saw three motorbike accidents! At one, while driving by, a man was still laying on the side of the road. I was later told he died the next day in a hospital. So, yeah, wearing a helmet is an absolute necessity. I asked my team leader for permission to ride with Samuel to the village and was granted.

We headed out and I was all excited. I love riding motorcycles in the USA. I even had a motorcycle for a few months but sold it because I just liked sitting on the back of one and being driven around. I used to say I was going to marry a big-burly-biker-boy. My expectations were high for this short trip, but it wasn’t so glamorous. You know, the weather here is hot and you’re wearing a helmet. And there is no back rest. And it is not a Harley. And the cushion seat is lacking. And Tamale says don’t hold on to anything otherwise you look like a wimp. And so I felt a bit unstable, not holding anything, but would randomly hold the bar on the back of the bike.  And my lower back was getting sore. And the back of my neck was getting sun burnt. And I had to get off once because we didn’t know how deep the water was. And there were sooooo many potholes.

But, on a positive note, I had thoughts like, “I am riding in a beautiful country to share God’s Word with a woman. This is so cool! I feel like such a missionary!” The way the green fields contrasted to the white clouds, the red dirt road and blue sky is really something to behold. And I was able to sit in that picturesque moment and praise God. I was hoping Samuel couldn’t hear me that well through his helmet as I became a radio and started singing songs to worship God. I had my phone out and tried to capture pictures along the way too. Since I am usually driving my car and cannot get up close to get good pictures, or the windscreen is dirty, or there is no place to pull over I don’t always get great shots. But I had a jolly good time, seemingly with fresh eyes, snapping animals, fields, water holes, other drivers, even the solar power flashlights on my widow’s roof to collect the sun’s rays!

We arrived at the village and the widow, and her two sons were there. We pulled out a bench and sat under a tree. We shared the story of the Lost Sheep. We talked about how God goes out to look for us, how He loves us, and how He celebrates us when we are found. I know for me, sometimes, I think of God as harsh, like, He should drag me back and beat me and yell at me. But He doesn’t. He finds and He celebrates. That is the God I serve.

You know, sharing God’s Word to women really gets God’s Word in me. I know God’s Word does not go out and come back empty, but even if it is for me, me just soaking it in, that motorbike trip is worth it. That car ride, that fuel money spent, that time given, that love shared. It is worth it.

Joy

Tamale is not my dream destination. It is not a glamourous city where it has nightlife and shopping malls and beautiful parks. I mean, just yesterday, some friends invited me out and we couldn’t choose where to eat because we only have a certain number of restaurants, and we were/are getting bored of them. Yet, I have had such joy in being here. Even though, I am asked for things, even though women don’t remember the verses, even though I get sick, even though, it is just not easy. Still, joy is in it, it permeates.

One thing about God…wait, let me back up. My favorite verse is Psalm 37:4, “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.” So, with God, as I delight in what He is doing in me and around me, He fills me with Himself and becomes whom I desire. Then he tops it off with other things I desire! For instance, I love Culvers restaurant in America. I love the burgers and the frozen custard. Ohhhh, the creaminess of it all. (I am salivating.) Ghana has ice cream. Well, I am not sure I would consider it ice cream. It comes in this little packet about the size of a chocolate bar. You can buy it on the roadside or in a shop. There are people who ride bicycles around selling them. It is frozen, if you get it before noon, otherwise it is a bit melted. You bite off a little corner of the plastic and suck the ice cream in. But, for someone who grew up on a dairy farm, someone who would have dinner in the summer consisting of a milkshake, someone who had to drink a glass of milk before water or Kool-Aid, knows the difference between good ice cream and not so good. When people ask me, “What do you miss about the US?” I have some things, like family, of course, but another one is ice cream. Now, I am saying all this because in Tamale…last year…we got… (drumroll please) …an ice cream shop!! I was very hesitant about trying it. How could it be nice? It will probably come out of a machine, a sugary soft serve. It cannot compare to home. I was very skeptical. But I went. They had about 6 flavors. They also make their waffle cones there, so I bought a scoop in a cone. WOW!! It went beyond what I was thinking. It was creamy, it was soft, it is the closest thing to frozen custard on this side of the ocean! I was like, “Lord, you knew of my love for ice cream. You knew it delights me. And you made it come to Tamale.” I asked the workers about the shop. One of them has a brother in Belgium. The ice cream is his recipe. It is delicious.

 God knew I would love it. He knew it would delight me. He didn’t even bring it to the capital city of Accra. He brought it to my city, my Tamale city, the town I serve him in. It is such a small thing, but it is yet another affirmation of my good God. What kind of God is this that would even care about my desires, my wants, and other bonus items?! No wonder I have joy. I get to walk alongside a God who delights over me, a God who has joy and pours it out on me.

So, maybe, when people ask, “What do you miss?” I will just say, “family”. Maybe God will bring them too? 😊

Goat Giveaway 2024

I was in the USA last year. I was able to travel a lot to visit supporters, churches and anyone interested in what God is doing in Ghana. I love getting to share. I also shared about the project that I was able to start through SIM. I wrote about it: Vulnerable Women's Project; you can check it out.

People have donated. I have even told people if there is something specific you would like your money to go to, let me know and I will try my best. One donor, who is a farmer, gave money asking me to give it towards giving women animals. They did say cows, but that is not really a thing here unless you are a herdsman. So, talking it over with my friend Samuel, we thought through our options and the looked at the money, and came to agree that for my Bible study women, which are more than 20, a goat for each one would be a great gift. Goats are helpful in that they can be a source of financial security as they can be easily and quickly sold for cash to meet needs in their family. Goats also are used for food. (MMMMM, Imagine a Goat Kabob! Yummy!)

I gave the money to Samuel and he and church leaders and friends went to several different markets. Ghana has had 54% inflation and so animal costs were more than we thought. After a couple days, times of bargaining, and numerous trips they were able to get 26 goats for the 26 women in the study!

I went to the church to meet the ladies and Samuel’s team (and the goats haha). We had a time of prayer and thanksgiving.

Samuel had numbers on all the goats, and we had tiny pieces of paper with numbers on them so the paper they chose corresponded to the goat that was for them. That way people cannot grumble about the goat they get; they chose that number.

But no one was in a grumbling mood! I felt a bit like Oprah when she gave away all those cars, except mine were goats. “A goat for you! A goat for you! A goat for you!”

It was a special day. It is great that people from one part of the world can help people in other parts of the world. God’s family and blessings spread wayyyyyy out!

Girl's Camp 2024

Girl’s Camp 2024

Such an original name, eh? A camp for girls. The ages we invited were 15-25, though some were younger, and a couple were older. They were all from Dagomba churches in Tamale like Baptist, Presbyterian, Catholic, Nondenominational, Methodist, and Anglican. Samuel and Mary took charge. They went and handed out forms to all these different churches. They talked to the pastors and parents and answered questions. They called girls to tell them the schedule and what to bring. They thought about the details like extra toilet paper, a first aid kit with aspirin and sanitary pads, and handing out notebooks and pens.

When I say Camp you might be thinking outdoors, fires, lakes etc, etc, but it is more like a conference. We could’ve called it Girl’s Conference. It is mostly times to hear about God and grow in your walk with Christ. We had times for games, crafts, talks about reusable pads, menstruation and hygiene.

Reporting time was Thursday at 4pm but according to good Ghanaian time, which is much later than the stated time, some showed up later. Dinner was available from 6pm -7 and at 7:30pm the Welcome Session started. Samuel is a leader with the Presbyterian church. You have seen him in other videos and pictures of my ministry in Ghana. He is usually the brains and heart behind it all. He has such a heart for vulnerable people. Mary is from the Baptist church. She has come with Samuel and I in the past to visit widows. She is a leader in her church also. She has a lot of experience with youth conferences and camps and leading young women.

Friday morning at 5:30am was devotions, 5:30! AHHHHH!!!! I was leading. So, I was up earlier to set up the projector and go over my talk. The girls were on time!! I was shocked. Programs never start on time here. We had breakfast and a time to shower and get ready for the day after that. We all reported back for the morning session, which again was… ME! A few weeks ago, as I was thinking (and you all praying with me THANK YOU) about what to share in this time block, I had a chat with my mom on the phone. I was telling her what I was learning in my daily Bible reading in 2 Chronicles. God really encouraged me thru those chapters. My mom off offhandedly said, “Why don’t you share those things with the girls?” It made such sense! Yes! I usually try to share what God has shared and used in me. So, the main thrust for that session was 2 Chronicles 13:18, “Judah prevailed because they relied on the LORD the God of their fathers.” I told the girls to put their own names in for Judah and have victory. I shared the stories around that verse and the following chapters. I shared different ways we can have growth in our relationship with Jesus like, reading our Bibles, obeying what it says, praising God, even in the midst of difficulties, using our gifts in church, being involved in church and prayer and having accountability. I had a couple gals come up and say they really learned a lot. As I spoke, I saw girls nodding their heads and it encouraged me to see they were understanding.

My colleague Bev came and did the next session. She spoke on who you are in Christ and sexual purity. It was great for girls to hear how worthy they are in God’s eyes. It was great to hear that they are created for a special purpose, and we pray they would not give into the pressure to have sex before they are married.

We had a bit of time before lunch and so Mary talked about reusable pads. There was a church in Georgia, USA, I was connected to when I was home last year, and they make reusable pads and sent me some! Pads here have a tax on them which makes it a bit expensive for some to buy. Mary showed them how to snap it around their panties and when to use the thicker insert and the thinner one. We invited a couple girls to come and practice to show that they understood. They were so excited to get their own bag and hopefully that reusable pad will last for over a year.

In the afternoon we invited an organization to come to lead the girls in games. The organization is called Sports Friends. They train church members to use sports to share the Gospel. They use it for evangelism. Sports ministry is a powerful tool used here in Tamale. If you bring out a ball, people will come! The leaders led our girls in different games like Simon Says, carry a lime on a spoon, water games, balloon games, and games where one was blindfolded. They used the games to teach a lesson. For example, the person blindfolded had to listen to her leader. But there were others around called distractors. They were yelling false directions. The blindfolded person had to listen to the leader to get around the obstacles while ignoring the distractors. It was a good lesson that in life we must keep our focus on Jesus because there are many distractions to lead us in the wrong ways.

After dinner we had a session led by a nurse from Tamale. I had never met her before, but she was voted best nurse at the Tamale Teaching Hospital. She is this tiny little thing who just bubbles out energy. There was an immediate connection between her and the girls. She was raised in Tamale and knew where the girls were coming from. She spoke on menstruation and our bodies. She talked about hygiene. She answered questions. She asked questions to the girls as well. She was thrilled to know they each got a pad bag because she knows that many young women cannot afford to buy pads in the stores.

Saturday morning, Mary led the devotion on being obedient to God. “Don’t just talk about God and be in church, but obey what He says”. Again, I was surprised at the girls being there on time at 5:30am!! It showed me they really wanted to learn. Before the camp started, I asked Mary about rebellious girls and how we would handle that and how would we watch them, and she gave suggestions. Thankfully, we did not have any difficult girls! We did not have to keep our eyes on them or worry about if they sneak out or are just sleeping in their rooms. I am sooooo thankful for this group of girls. 

After they washed up and ate breakfast, two women came and shared with us. They use beads to make bags, decorate flip flops, make key chains, bangles etc, etc. They gave great instructions and walked alongside the girls as they started to create. It was a very well-timed session because this was our last session, and I could see girls were tired. This craft gave girls time to just sit with each other and be creative. I also joined in and made myself a bracelet with my Dagomba name, Wunizooya, which means, “God is great”.

We had time to wrap up and talk about what things they liked about camp. They all said they would come to another one. They also shared suggestions. I would say 100% would come again. Samuel, Mary and I looked at each other like, “we have to organize another one??!!!” Haaahaaa. No, we too also enjoyed the 3 days, and we are already planning for another one.

The meals. Of course, you know me, I have to talk about the food. It was delicious, plentiful, and on time! What a combo :) Ghanaian culture teaches respect to elders and those in authority. At meal time, when I saw a girl was finished, I would take her bowl to the kitchen. I got some horrified looks and girls trying to take the dishes away from me. I said, “hey, I wanna be like Jesus, let me serve.” They laughed. Well, a few meals later, a couple girls grabbed my empty plate and I tried to take it back and the one said, “hey, I wanna be like Jesus, let me serve.” How could I argue with that!?

The reason we could do this camp was because when I was home last year, I raised money for a project called Vulnerable Women in Ghana. The money used to pay for the venue, food, speakers, and activities came from that. If you were one who donated, THANK YOU!!! If you want to donate you can do so at https://www.simusa.org/give/ and click on give projects and put into the dropdown box Vulnerable Women in Ghana. Money is used for pads, helping widows with food, paying school fees, literacy training, physical needs for those struggling, buying animals for women, and things like a girl’s camp!

Samuel always talks about how important it is to feed both the spiritual part of people’s lives and also the physical. And working with him, we seem to accomplish both. The project plays a big part in that. Thank you for your prayers and financial support which makes you part of this also. You have made it possible for 50 girls to come together in a safe place and grow in their relationship with God. You have made it possible for girls to come together and pray, play, and create. I love serving a God who desires good things like this for His children.


I made a video highlighting the best parts…which was all of it. Ha Ha. Enjoy!!

Best Friends

I love them, I love them. What more can I say?

I have 4 best friends here in Ghana. We do not see each other very often. We do not call and chat very often. We do not always agree on things. But I know they love me, and I them.

My best friends are Baaba and Amponsah, Kanor and Kofi. They have been my friends starting from 2005. They were leaders with the youth at a church that I related to in my early days. They walked with me as I learned the ways of ministry to youth in Accra. They would tell me helpful things or ways I could be more contextualized in my teaching and relationships. They pushed me to lead and join in with activities. They showed me how to pray and fast, persevere, and see God in the midst of trials.

Amponsah and I traveled to the north and other regions of Ghana in those early years. We wanted to see how Good News Bible Church would encourage youth and build them up. We also heard the struggles they had. I have watched him grow youth to be leaders. Amponsah leads by example. He will never ask someone to do something he has not done. Also, he leads worship with his whole heart. I know that when he is leading, he leads me into the presence of the Lord.

Kofi is so in tuned to God (probably because he prays about 23.5 hours of the day). When I was involved with the youth, he made me lead worship. They have a very different style here! And, I was like NO WAY, eventually I did, with his encouragement. During prayer nights, he told me I could move around when I pray. I nearly tripped over a chair and so remained seated during prayer times, even though everyone else was walking around. Again, so different from the way I did it. He helped me to do a kid’s program on Monday evenings, which I really loved. He also loves movies and, somehow, he finds them even when they are still in the theaters. So, then, we were also able to talk about movie actors and films. It made me feel like I had a piece of home in those conversations.

Kanor is a servant. He is always running behind the scenes, starting with the praise team. He plays about 4 different instruments and continues to lead the group as new members join. He always wants to make sure I am OK. One time he gave me a gift card at a shop to have fun with!

Baaba was a friend that came later. She was a woman who, when I would see with the youth, I would think, “that is me when I lived in Chicago”. She speaks confidently and directly. She later apologizes, but not for truth. She and I did Bible studies once a week together and prayed. Soooooo many of our prayers came to pass. Those were some of my favorite times.

She and Amponsah married, and they have 3 girls. Their first born was born on my birthday and they named her after me. Those girls are my girls. They comb my hair and braid it. They tell me my hair is slippery and that my muscles feel very soft. They memorize Bible verses with me.

In April, I traveled down to Accra for a funeral. It was good timing for me because I was in a funk. I had only been back to Tamale two months, but I wasn’t in it. I was down because of church issues, disappointed in myself for not settling in fast, and my light and water were not consistent. And it was the hottest time of the year! Ugh! It’s like, I would get my feet going and then trip up. I couldn’t get into a groove.

After the Saturday funeral, I went to church on Sunday where my best friends go. Kofi sat down with me afterwards and asked me a little question and I burst into tears, surprising us both! So, then we had a chat. A great chat. And encouraging chat. A chat where I really needed someone to speak into my life and he did. What he said I am putting into practice. Sometimes I just need someone to tell me what to do!

As I got to see Kanor’s wife, Annabelle, and their 10-month-old son, Kenny, I was able to talk with him too. A couple years ago Kanor gave me an invertor battery. It’s huge. Since I have many days of no electricity (no reason, it just goes off) an invertor battery would be very helpful to keep things going when I do not have power. He is again organizing with someone to have it properly installed in my house. Such a practical gift! I will be grateful when it will be working.

After church, I went to stay with Baaba, Amponsah and the girls. They always give me a room in their home. Baaba prepared Fufu and Light soup with fish. YUMMY. I was sharing with Amponsah about how discouraging it is when I see Christians with attitudes that are not biblical. Or how disappointing the things I am trying to do just don’t seem to go anywhere. He shared with me some things at his work. He, too, doesn’t always feel like what he teaches or does goes very far, but it will. I was encouraged to persevere. I remember him saying, “teach and do” / “teach and show” for ministry things. So, very true.

Anytime Baabs and I get together we just talk the whole time. Don’t ask me what we talk about, but we can keep the chatter constant! There is always something to say about our relationship with God or with others. Baaba spoke directly to me on an issue in my life that needed it and, though, I didn’t completely agree, I was so glad she brought it up. I have given it to the Lord daily since then.

I left their home feeling so uplifted. I flew to Tamale the next day and knew the Spirit refreshed me using these 4 people. It is not always the missionary who ministers. It is not always the missionary who serves and prays for people. I know people think I am such a blessing here in this place called Africa. Bah! Ghanaian people are such a blessing to me. They minister to me. They serve me. I am humbled so many times.

You think for me to live and work here is such a sacrifice. Bah x2! It is a privilege! A privilege that I would get to serve God here and know these people, especially these 4 best friends, and to work alongside them to further God’s kingdom.

Amazing. It is a plan I would never have thought of. I am so thankful God’s ways are higher than my ways. To speak like a Ghanaian, “I am richly blessed-ooo .”

Firsts and Good Things

 I like firsts, as in the first time trying something/or first time adventure. I wish I could have a first every day. A couple of weeks ago, one first was having a dead rat in my car. It was hiding under the front passenger seat. I knew something was wrong. My car was having a smell that got worse and worse. Finally, on a drive with Samuel, he was like, “there is something dead here” and I also noticed flies trying to get into my car. I pulled the car over and we started looking. (Yes, I did look already but Samuel has eagle eyes.) Yep, he found a tuft of fur! Unbelievable! What was that thing doing in my car? How did it get in my car? We tried using sticks to get it out, like chopsticks but it was too big. So, I just told myself it was already dead and reached in with my bare hand and grabbed it out. That thing was the size of my whole hand. Ew. But, it was a first. First time to grab a dead animal out of my car.

Another first I had was trying a new food. I went to visit my mechanic, say hi, tell him I have arrived back in town and chat. There are always people sitting around his place. I went to greet them and saw a woman selling what I thought looked like roasted fish. On closer inspection, they were roasted toads. I stared and shook my head and hands. I asked people sitting around if they are now eating frog legs. They laughed and said, “frogs are poisonous these are completely different…they are toads.” Hmmm…yes, completely different, whatever. So, they were all chomping away on these toads, these crunchy little things. I had to try it. I felt they were all watching me. They were only 20 cents apiece. I had to. So, I got one, looked at everyone chomping away and smiling and went for it. It had the texture of a fish, boney and not much meat, but it didn’t taste like fish. When it came to the head…is this too much information for you? SORRY! I had to tell myself, “It is fish Sherri, it is fish, just pretend it is fish,” and I completed the snack. If I would come into this situation again, I would be able to eat another one. (Not like Bush Rat…ugh)

Another first was that in many areas in West Africa they lost coverage of internet. When I would send a message it would arrive to someone the next day. One day, I could check some emails, the next day it was worthless, no signal. Apparently, a cable in the sea was cut, but it has been restored.

I love thrift stores and in Ghana they have used clothes markets outside. People will have a large wagon with a certain type of clothes. One wagon will be jerseys and shorts, or one wagon will be t-shirts and singlets. I found one with white, cotton shirts. These shirts were so white. I was like, “how do they get them so clean?” I wear a white shirt once and wash it and it is grungy already. Even for special occasions people will wear a full white outfit! How in the world does that stay clean?? Well, I kept asking people about it. In the market I found this little rock…not a rock but it looked like a small piece of charcoal. There was a blue one and a black one. The blue one you drop into a bottle of water to dilute it. Then you add the blue liquid to a bucked of water of the thing you want bleached. Let it sit for a bit and VOILA!! you got a crispy, white shirt. It was a first for me. I just did it to my bedsheets too. BEEEE A UUUU TI FULLLLL!!!

Along with firsts I had some good things that happened to me. In Psalm 103 a verse says, “forget none of His benefits.” I have tasted and seen some of those good benefits and to write them down helps me remember when things get hard or hot. One good thing that I will not forget is that God provided me with a sugar free vanilla syrup. While I was in the US, I tried some in my tea and smoothies and LOVED it. I was sure I could find some in the capital city of Accra, but there was none. Sad. Then, randomly, looking in a small shop here in Tamale…yep! I found some! Every time I think of good things, I think of that good gift God gave me. I also had some friends stay with me for a night. I felt bad for them because I didn’t have electricity. After their children went to bed, we pulled out chairs to the back veranda, clicked on an LED light and chit chatted the night away catching up on our lives. I told them for me, electricity trumps friendship, but they thought otherwise. Another good thing for me! Let me wrap this up with just laying out some other good things like the plumber, after a month of coming and going, finished the job. YAY! Also, just this past weekend we had a good rain. It cooled things down by 20 degrees, well for the day anyways. It was a sweet night for sleeping. In my English class one man shared how difficult it is for his wife to find water, so he has taken the responsibility upon himself to do it. (Men do not fetch water here, big no no.) I told him that is the Lord working in his life and showing love to his wife. Suddenly, a couple other men in class raised their hands and wanted to share what they did for their wives! HAHAHAA!! Another time boys.

There are firsts that bring adventure to my life, which I love. There are good things God gives me to remind me it is a privilege to serve Him. There are hard times that hold me fast to Him when I got nothin’ left. And there is peace knowing that I was created to serve Him here, amid crazy and different, through it all to make His name known.

The Drive from Accra to Tamale (630km/400 miles)

Charity flew in from Canada and I flew in from the US in January. I had my car down in Accra waiting for me. I was planning to drive up to Tamale and asked Charity if she would join me. Together we always have fun!

We packed the car the night before. I had a billion bags, and a big cooler and Charity had her own bags too. We loaded my lovely Nissan X Trail to the gills! We wanted to get on the road early to start the long journey and try and miss some of the morning traffic.

That morning when we left, it was still dark out. We hit our goal to be on the road at 5am…well, technically it was 5:05am. We thought we were doing pretty well until about 10 minutes later…we were stuck in traffic! Traffic, really Accra, really? I lived in Accra from 2005-2015 and they always are doing road work. I do not remember a time when there was not construction on the road getting out of Accra. I guess, we in the States are similar. Summer is always construction season. Here is summer all the time.

Anyways, the traffic seemed not really to be backed up by full roads but rather a couple huge semi-trucks heavily loaded had broke down in a spot where the traffic had to go down to one lane to get through it. So, when we got passed that then people were able to move freely. Being a Saturday morning there was no school traffic, but there was funeral traffic. People in Accra and Kumasi especially go to funerals on the weekends. And of course, the traffic of the big trucks that run goods up and down the country, some from Burkina Faso, were out in full force too.

There is a place where they make pottery and Charity was keen on buying. I was interested in eating the last of our leftovers! Chicken leg anyone?

We had learned a way that goes around Kumasi, which is a bit longer, but there is no traffic, and so we took that road. It was a while since I took it, and so we used Google maps to guide us through those random roads and turns.

Google gave us a turn that was new to me, but cut off a couple zigzags, which I was happy about. Then it gave us another turn that I was not familiar with but since the other direction was correct, I was cool about following especially when it said it was 11 minutes shorter and I was all about getting to Tamale in less than 10 hours.

Well, that turn took us on a nice road for a few kilometers…and then…it went to dirt…and then…it was bush. As in grass brushing alongside the car and even underneath. We did not say anything to each other for a bit. And then, it was like, “ummm…this does not seem right” and “is this normal?” I just kept moving forward because there was no room to turn around! We did not have a choice. Well, we ended up in a village of some sort. There must have been a funeral going on because we saw black canopies set up with chairs. There was really no road though. That probably should have been a warning for us. We did not know which way to go. We then saw a motorbike and decided to follow him. And that road was even worse than the bush road we were just on! How is that possible? Well, parts of this road or I should call it a trail had a big gully in the middle. At one point Charity got out so she could direct me and my tires so I would not slide into it. Again, there was no place to turn around. According to Google maps we were somehow parallel to the road that we wanted. There was a turn, to go in that direction, but it was uphill a bit and had rocks. I was like, “NO WAY!” So, we went forward again but knew we just couldn’t go any farther. It was farm country. Thankfully there was a place to turn around. We met some young boys with their machetes out at their farm and I asked them (thankfully I remembered some Twi!!) about the road. And they said, “there is no road.” Nice. Then we saw some women from the farm carrying corn in baskets. I asked them about the road. They also said, “there is no road.” Soooo, I am sort of getting the picture here about the road. hahaha

So, we headed back and got back to that tiny little junction where it was uphill and rocky. We met a man coming on a motorbike. Charity got out and he stopped. He told us this is a road to go to farm. HAHAA…yes, we figured. (Again, I am so thankful for the friendliness of Ghanaians and for the many who speak English!) They talked some. He told us we need to take this hill and it will lead us to the main road. I was like, “NO WAY.” But then, we saw two trotro (minivan sort of vehicles) come toward us and the man said we should follow them. I was like, “are they even going to make it??” The first one got up the rocky hill with no problem. The second got halfway and then rolled back down. He got a running start and tried again and bottomed out and made it. Ok…I guess I can do it if they can, but I was freakin’ out inside.

SIDE NOTE: in 2015 I took my car down a steep incline with lots of rocks (the rocks were so you would not just slide down the whole thing) and as I was going down I came down hard on a big rock and it actually punctured my oil tank under my car and my oil leaked out! I had to leave my car there and get a welder to fix it.)

I was thinking, “if I puncture my oil tank where am I going to find a welder around here??” So, Charity went to the top of the incline and directed me, and I bolted up, and still did bottom out, but no leaking oil! We then followed the trotros, and thankfully we did, because there was another turn that we wouldn’t have seen that they took. And eventually, we did get to a good, black topped road. Phew!

That detour chopped our time.

The rest of the trip was uneventful. The traffic gets less as you drive north, the police did not pull us over and the road is straight. We did stop for fuel and bathrooms but other wise we kept on going. We reached Tamale at 6pm.

Thankfully, it was light for another 30 minutes and we met up with the house cleaner who finished up and we could move our bags in. There was no electricity though. Almost all of Tamale was shut off! Of course! I did find some candles and the weather was cool enough because of the Harmattan that we could manage quite well. We were just so thankful to have made it safely, though, in a disappointing 13 hours!! Again, we were safe, we had a clean house, we had candles, we had food, we had each other.

Going and Coming with Peace

Can you have peace on a rollercoaster?

The week or 2 weeks before leaving to head back to the mission field was that…a peaceful rollercoaster.

One day you are excited about getting back to a routine and life that is adventurous, hard, and abnormal. And the next day you don’t want to leave the comforts, the family, the foods of home. Talk about whiplash.

I usually head back to Ghana after a home assignment immediately after New Years Day. But this year, my dad celebrated a big birthday on January 23rd and so I stayed a few weeks to join in the fun.

It was lovely to have time to decompress after a jolly Christmas. It was lovely to have below zero-degree weather and snow. It was lovely to just have a little bit more time with family and friends.

I went on a personal retreat for a few days and quieted myself with the Lord. God used that time to turn my focus back to Himself and Ghana. The time of sharing about Ghana and showing videos to those interested was now over. I loved talking about Ghana. I loved telling people what God has been doing. It was time to regroup, look to what is ahead and pray for what is to come.

I came back from that (about 10 days prior to departure) and again had peace that Ghana was the place for me. I never doubted it. It is just that America has a way of sucking you in. It makes you so comfortable and almost lethargic that I feel like I could just willy-nilly my way thru life. But no, God has called me.

I always ask Him why. I always tell Him he sure knows how to pick the weird ones. I always tell Him someone else can do it better.

So, those couple days before, I got thru my To-Do list. I said goodbyes. And can I just add that goodbyes never get easier! They should, don’t you think? But they do not. Hard times. But I still never lost that sense of peace.

I arrived in Ghana. There was about a 70-degree difference from what I left. I went from country life to arriving in Accra, a city of several million people. I went from heaters to air conditioning. I went from tap water to bottled water. I went from boots to flip flops. I went from peace to … peace. It never left.

(Ok…I did get worried about my luggage. I always freak out about my luggage. Weeks before traveling I am arranging and sorting what to bring and how to fit it. I never know what the scale is going to end up showing at the airport and I must fit as much as possible into that suitcase!! Stress. But it all worked out. Their scale was .4 lbs. off my scale. Phewwwwww!)

I had a week in Accra. A city of lots of traffic and things that never go the way you plan, but somehow, I finished all the necessary things in a week. A week where I felt like, “ok, back to this, I got it!” A week to see important people, like my best Ghana friend, Baaba. A week to do some shopping of things I cannot get in Tamale. A week to get on a different sleep schedule. A week to continue to prepare myself for arriving in Tamale.

Peace.

It followed me.

Well, maybe, I should say, I followed Him, The Prince of Peace.

Vulnerable-Women and Widows Ministry - Ghana

Maybe you are asking what a vulnerable woman needs and why is she vulnerable.

Vulnerable women are particularly widows, but especially Christian widows in a place where another faith is the dominant religion. Widows are often accused of bringing a bad influence on the household and are often ostracized and neglected. If they are going to remain faithful to God, they will have to help themselves in any way that they can. This is where this project will help.

The project will also help young progressive women who want to make a difference but because they are women, may not get the chance or opportunity to help themselves. This project is just what they need to get them going in a startup or project that will generate income.

FINALLY. I was able to put a project on simusa.org/give for a way to support women in Ghana. I have had lots of help in this as it seems there is a lot of people who also have had this on their hearts. My Ghanaian friend, Samuel has given a lot of input, my director has encouraged and given insight, and my colleague has typed it all up and sent it in! It has been in the works for over 2 years.

What is this project going to do?

Any funds that we get will help women, young to old, who would like help physically and spiritually. The funds can be used to buy animals, help them rent an acre of land to farm, pay for apprenticeship fees, help with hospital care, school fees, gas for motorbikes for those traveling to villages to meet with these women, and sanitary pads. The women we will help will agree to meet with a discipler who will meet with them every week for Bible Studies. We hope these relationships will bring out spiritual maturity and for them to find one to disciple. We hope the project will help young women start out well in life, widows to not to succumb to the pressures of marrying a man of another faith, and women in general to find a way to help with the difficulties of trying to make it in Ghana.

When I head back to Ghana in January 2024, this project will help many vulnerable women. You can start giving now! This would really bless a woman, and her family. Please consider giving. Or connect with me to pray for the work in Ghana, and I will send you emails every couple of weeks with requests to support the project and how God will use it in people’s lives.

Here’s what to do:

  • Click here: simusa.org/give.

  • Click the, “Give now,” button under “Give to a missionary or project”.

  • Click, “Select designation”.

  • Type, “94909” in the text box.

  • Select, “Vulnerable-Women and Widows Ministry - Ghana” from the dropdown.

  • Fill out the remaining payment and form information and click, “Submit donation”.

Thanks in advance for your support.

If you haven’t yet watched my latest videos, where it shows the women I get to serve and teach, please click and watch!

Pads

My fellow worker in Ghana, a local Ghanaian man, has stepped up to help others. His name is Samuel. He is married with one son. I have known him for more than 5 years and he never stops surprising me with his ideas and things that the Lord puts on his heart. This is his story to help young adolescent women.


Hello. I am Catechist Issa Samuel from the Presbyterian Church of Ghana. Back in October 2022, we went to a church for a program. They invited one lady to sing. She did so well. We all enjoyed her. Then I did the preaching. When I finished, they asked her to come back up to sing for the offertory. The girl did not come up. Her parents were annoyed, and the church people were shouting on her. After the church service, everyone left, and she remained. I went and asked her, “what is wrong?” She said she is on her menses and her dress is spoiled. I asked her if she was aware it would come and she was. She said she asked her father to give her money for it and he refused. She then asked her mother who then went to sell a bowl of pepper to a trader for money. But still, the money has not come for her to buy the pad. So, she did not have any option except for using traditional things which brings sores to her private areas, and she didn’t want to use it anymore.

That was the beginning, that is how it all came about. So, how can we help other young girls in this situation?

Some girls told us that they sold themselves purposely to be able to buy pads. One girl said she broke her virginity because of this issue. She was in school and didn’t have money and her parents did not have money, so she found a boy who wanted to date her. He said she would need to spend the weekends with him before he would give her any money. She did not feel like she had any other option than to agree.


Isn’t this shocking??!

My colleague Charity and I have asked questions to young women and have heard that when it is that time of the month, they do not even go to school. They usually have no sanitary protection.

In November of 2022 Ghana inflation went to a staggering 30+%. Prices have increased and people struggle with food prices not to mention “extra” things like pads.

Samuel is one who has a heart for vulnerable people. He loves the broken-hearted and always pulls out of his own emply pockets to help. Sometimes I ask, “WHO IS THIS GUY???” He was thinking of how he could help and teach families how necessary it is for young women to have these items. He was telling me he didn’t just want it to be a “here is your pad, come and get it” sort of thing. He wanted to speak to families, and especially fathers, to tell them about the importance of buying pads for their daughters. He decided to type up a flyer and see if he could get donations to help buy pads because many do not have money for it.

The only thing I did was edit the flyer. All of the other work was Samuel, another pastor and a young woman. They went out in June, usually after church on Sunday, to speak to a church or community on this topic. They spoke to fathers and men and emphasized the importance of putting this on their budget for their daughters. They told them this is a necessity every month. Samuel’s friend Christy took the young women aside and taught about hygiene and also showed them how to use a pad. And, of course, every woman got a box of pads. (A box of pads costs around $1.50. That for us is a little more than a Diet Coke at McDonalds.)

Samuel told me the testimonies of some of the churches where they went:

June 11, 2023 The village is called Shigu. There was education they gave for parents about buying pads for their daughters. A week later, on the 19th, Samuel met one girl from that congregation and she testified that what they came to do was good. In her own family, her father went out the following Tuesday morning and he brought back two packs of pads and told them that when they need more, they should make him aware.

June 18, 2023 The village is called Adubiyili. They gave a chance for people to ask questions after the education. One man stood up and said he did not have a question but wanted to share something. He said that his mind never went to those things. He knew that his daughters have their menses, but never thought about how they would go through it. He made a vow from that day on, even if she has her menses the day before her wedding, he will provide pads for them.

Samuel has been asked many times to visit other communities to share the information and pads. But as of, July 23rd, 2023 he has run out of funding to buy more. It is something so small, something we (in USA) do not think about. I have loved seeing how Ghanaians have taken the initiative for this outreach and Ghanaians are giving!

Soon, I will have a project for giving towards vulnerable women if you would like to contribute to this. I will keep you posted!

Pastor's Testimony

Pastor lives about a 10 minute walk from my house. He and his family are the nearest Christians in my neighborhood. When I went to visit them one time, he told me a bit of his past. It was very interesting, so I asked if I could hear the whole story and write it down.


Who am I? How did I become a Christian? In fact, it is a long story but let’s see how the Holy Spirit will help us.

My name is called Wahab Mohammed or Abdul Wahab Mohammed as Muslims say. I was born in a village called Sankpala about 22kms away from Tamale which is in the Savannah Region of Ghana. My parents are there, and all my brothers and sisters. On my mother’s side we were 9 but 6 children died leaving 3 of us, all boys. My father had 3 wives and they gave birth to many children. My father’s children are more than 25.

When we were growing up, they sent us to Arabic school. Though there was a school in the community which belonged to the Catholics, the mallams in the community said that when you allow your child to go to a Christian school, if the child dies or grows up and dies, the child will not go to heaven and the family will pay for that. So, they stopped us from going to school and sent us to Arabic School. This was my education as we grew up.

Growing up we wanted to learn about Islam. They told us it is the only religion that will send you to heaven. We loved Islam and we worked hard in our learning. As time went on, people traveled south to study the Koran even more and I followed them. When I completed the training, I was 18 years old. I returned to my village, Sankpala, and started gathering my people, teaching them what I had learned. 

For some time, I felt within me that I would like to go to school. When I came from the Arabic school, we formed a group of 6 to help each other with farming. I was 20 years old. We helped each other but they all started to get married. I said, “not me, I want to go to school,” and they thought I was joking. “You are 20 years old, and you want to go to school? We cannot understand you.” I told them within me I don’t want to get married; I wanted to go to school.

I went to my father and told him I wanted to go to school. My father said, “I cannot understand you. Look at your friends.” But again, I said, “this is what I feel inside me.” He did not agree with me. I went to a mallam who was friends with my father and still my father did not agree. He told me I should farm. So, I decided to sell some of my crops, like ground nuts, to get money, and I moved to Tamale to live.

Before I came to Tamale there was a time I was in contact with a church, an Evangelical Presbyterian Church. These people came to start a church in Sankpala. Many people from Sankpala came out to sit under the tree to listen to them. I went to one of the mallams and said, “these people are coming to mislead our people. These people are not good,” and the mallams agreed with me. I gathered my friends and my father’s donkey. I used the donkey to fetch water and then I sold the water. I used the money to buy slingshots.

The next Sunday, we waited for the church people to finish. There were some benches and old ladies and people from Tamale. We were hanging around as the church people came in their pickup truck. They started singing and clapping their hands and calling out, “Issa, Issa the Son of God”. We really didn’t like that. We didn’t like to hear that Jesus is the Son of God. It is like pouring fire on somebody. I told my friend we should use the slingshots and hit them which did. The pastor and catechist and people ran into their car and others into their homes. After this incident I moved to Tamale.

I was 21 years old when I started primary school. I had never been to school. The Arabic school was only studying the Koran and Islam. I had not even learned the ABC’s. I came to Tamale by myself and put myself into school. I went to stay with some uncles, but they sacked me from their home. They said I should go back to the village. Three of them said I should go back to Sankpala. I refused. If I went back to the village I would only farm and then I would have to marry.

Fortunately, one of my uncles, not a close family member, had a wife who was disabled. She was a teacher but used a staff and wheelchair to get around. She needed someone strong to fetch water, push her, and help in the house. I saw that uncle and he said I could stay if I helped his wife. She taught at the Lamashigu Primary School. Since I was helping her, she said I could attend the school.

The headmaster was named Mr. Kala, and when he saw me, he said he did not want me coming because I was a grown up. At that time when grown-ups would come to school, they were known to beat the teachers. Some were older than the teachers! He did not want me to come because he thought I would do that to his teachers. I kneeled, I begged, “Please I won’t do that.” The headmaster said he would give me admission, but he would keep his eyes on me. If I misbehaved, he said he would sack me. So that is how I started school.

Primary one (Grade 1) at the age of 21 years was where I started. Then because I worked hard and was serious about my education, I was promoted to Primary 4 within the year. The teacher was impressed that I was so serious. He invited me to come to his house for extra learning. We would eat and go to his house, and he would teach me. His father had a garden, and I would help him weed. The teacher was happy that I helped him. It was good. He really helped me learn.

When students from Primary 6 were moving to junior high, my teacher said I could also go. I was like, “no, I don’t know anything, you can’t send me.” He said, “I am your teacher; I know you. You are even better than others in town. So, I will send you.” He sent me to Kaladan SDA Junior High School.

There was a prominent mallam near that school which was connected to a church. He took the church land by force and built a mosque. He also took some property of the school but by doing that the mosque was close to the school. It is where we did our Muslim prayers and even though, the school was a Christian school, we the Muslims were the majority. We did whatever we wanted to do. The teachers were afraid of us.

I was made the Student’s Imam. Anytime it was time to pray, and we heard the call to pray, no matter if the teacher was teaching or not, when I got up and said, “it is time,” all the Muslims would get up and go out leaving the teacher. It was in this way that the Muslims were misbehaving.

As time went on, I hated Christians. Those I could beat, I would beat them, especially when they said Jesus is the Son of God. I got so annoyed at them. When I was in the school, I would not even give you a chance to say something against Islam, or that God is the Father of Jesus. I would argue with them to the extent we would even exchange blows and I would beat them up again!

In February 2005 the Gideons came to the school to share New Testament Bibles. I was part of the school leaders. I oversaw the students to keep the school grounds clean. The headmaster of this school called us student leaders to come and help distribute the Bibles. I told my friends, “Nobody should touch the Bible, it is a sin! It is full of lies. There is no truth in it, if you touch it and die you will go to hell.”

The Christian students among us went and told the headmaster. He called me and said, “if you say that again I will sack you from this school and I will write bad reports about you, and you will never get admission into another school.” That made me afraid. I did not want to stop school. So, I helped them share the Bibles class by class. The remaining ones were brought back to the headmaster. He looked at us and told us to take one for ourselves. I refused. He repeated it and said don’t forget or I will sack you and write bad reports against you. So, I then went and took it. When I took the Bible, everything began to change.

At that time, I was leading two mosques in town in their prayers. I was teaching people how to read the Koran. When people saw me carrying that little Bible, they asked me why I was carrying it. I just said it was something from school. But nothing came into my mind that I should throw it away. I was holding it until I got to my house. Immediately I opened the door to my room it was like some spirit entered me and I became angry with the Bible, but instead of me throwing it outside I rather threw it into my room, and it remained there in my corner.

The mallam who taught me how to read the Koran was someone who could write and do charms. Charms are, let’s say, things to do to someone to control their actions. For example, if somebody would have a bad spirit or be possessed and someone would bring the person to the mallam, the mallam would write something on a chalk board and wipe it off with water. Taking the water, he would make the person drink the water with the dust from the board. We would write things from the Koran and then add some things into it like perfume. Or we would go to the bush and get some herbs or roots to make some incense and perfumes and put it on the fire and the scent would drive away the demon. Or somebody can come and say, “my business is not going well. I don’t get customers.” So, an Imam could make some incense, or you could use a powder form and mix it with oil or lotion for the person to be using to get customers. Or maybe you wanted to propose to a particular lady, and she is not accepting. You can do some charms and put it in money and rub it with the money and then give the money to the woman. When the woman receives it there is no way the woman will escape you.

There were a lot of other charms we were using to do things If you wanted to separate a couple, because you are also interested in that girl. We could use charms to break them apart. This is the work that some mallams do. We would write verses from the Koran and add perfume into it. Those evil perfumes attracted people to the power. We used different perfumes which were attractive and helped people get what they wanted. Of course, when you helped people to get what they wanted, the person would have to give you some money for what you were ablet to do for them.

I was a committed Muslim like how I am committed to Christianity now. I was somebody who if you needed me, you could find me in the mosque. I truly loved Islam. I would call for prayers, lead prayers, teach and I would also do charms. People said they liked the way I did the call to prayer because it was done in an Arabic way. I was doing all this in Tamale.

So, like I said before, they gave us Gideon New Testaments. They asked us to take one. I didn’t throw it away on my way home. But when I got to my house, I became annoyed, and I threw it inside when I opened the door, and it was lying there until the month of April.

It was the second week of April, before Easter. It was a Friday evening that I had an encounter with Jesus Christ. This was the way it happened; I am convinced now that this was Jesus speaking to me. I heard the true voice twice. It was His voice. What happened you see, was that we believe in witches, and they attack people. So, I was in my room on a Friday evening or maybe 3am Saturday morning. I was sleeping but it was not a dream, I felt some heaviness on me. I tried to get up, but I could not get up. It was heavy like someone was sitting on me pressing me down. I struggled… I was like hmph…I struggled until I was sweating. So, I laid there wondering what is this? Maybe a witch or bad spirit? I could not even cry. So, after a few seconds, the load left me. When the load left me I began to hear a voice, “Go and pick up the Bible.” I heard it loud and clear; it was not a dream. I said, “No, this is a demon.” So, I went and picked up my kettle of water and performed ablution to pray against that bad spirit that attacked me.

In the Koran there is a chapter that Muslims use for occasions when wanting protection, so I began reading the chapter for protection. Our mallam said there are portions that you should read when you are attacked by demons. They believed that by reading them, God would let them leave immediately. When you recite it, we believed you might see fire and demons jumping on trees. But God willing, he will intervene. So, that night I wanted to recite it, but I couldn’t.

(One thing about the Koran, it is not like reading the Bible. Reading the Bible, while you read the Holy Spirit helps you to understand the meaning. For the Koran, you must read the true Arabic and then go back again and then start learning the meaning. Or you only read and recite it like singing, but you wouldn’t know the meaning unless you go back to someone who knows the meaning. They are the ones who will teach you the meaning which will take you years and sometimes includes going to Saudi Arabia to learn it even more.)

When I tried to recite the prayer, I couldn’t do it. I messed up. My body was shaking. I couldn’t pray and found it difficult to stand. I said, “what is going on?” A second time I heard the voice, “Go and pick up the Bible.” I heard it. I said, “no” but I went and picked it up.

It was afraid something bad would happen to me if I didn’t pick it up. Fear came on me and I went and got the Bible. I never opened it. But I heard the voice, “Open to John 14:6.” I was holding it in my hands and my hands were shaking. I had never opened a Bible before. I didn’t know what John 14:6 was or what it meant. Still, I opened it, and it was like a light from my eyes went into the Bible. This verse was written in bold and stuck out to me. It was like that was the only verse there was to find.

Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth and the life no one goes to the Father except thru me.” Ei! When I read that, I don’t know what happened. It was like something went out of me and something came in. The sadness I was feeling was gone replaced by a deep joy within me.  Questions were flowing out of me from left to right to center. The questions kept coming and I felt my heart beating very hard.

I used to call out for morning prayers at 4 am with the loudspeaker. But that morning at 4 am I did not go out, someone else did it. I stayed inside. It felt like the Spirit was saying to me, if Jesus said, ‘I am the way the truth and the life and nobody goes to the Father except thru me,’ then what is the meaning of Al-Fatiha, Aya 5-7 in the Koran? When we go to pray, we recite it. The Aya says, “show us the straight way, the way of those whom you have bestowed your grace. Those who are not wrathful and who do not go astray.”

More questions began to come, “who are those people that God has shown the right way or the straight way?” So, I thought, “if God has shown some people the way and Jesus said I am the way then those people have found Jesus. It must mean that Jesus is the way.

Again, it seemed as if the Holy Spirit took me to another chapter in the Koran, Al-Baqara sura 2 Aya 62. It says, “Those who believe and those who follow Jews, and Christians, and Sabeans, anyone who believes in Allah and the last day their work of righteousness shall have their reward with their Lord and on them shall be no fear nor shall they grieve.” This is in the Koran. When I was a Muslim, and you came across something like this you ask your mallam or Arabic instructors about it and they said it is referring to Christians before Mohammed. When they say that, you are under the spirit of Islam, and you accept all that they say.

But the Holy Spirit revealed to me, if we are saying Christians are going to hell but God is saying Christians are going to heaven then I don’t think there is truth about them going to hell. I must listen to God. The Spirit used these thoughts to convince me 100% that John 14:6 was true.

At this time the house I was living in, when it is time for prayers and children are playing, I was given power by my landlord to beat them if they would not go and pray. This was how important it was that I could teach them the Koran. I was so serious. The day after this encounter happened everyone was out or went to work. I came out from the room Saturday afternoon at 12. My encounter started almost 24 hours before. During that time people came and knocked on my window, which was close to the mosque, but I couldn’t talk to anyone. I stayed inside. I wasn’t hungry. I was just there, and the questions were flowing. When I finally came out, my landlord’s wife was still around. She said, “Abdul Wahab, you are in your room? We called you and you didn’t respond.” When I opened my mouth I told her, “Ma, from today I am no more a Muslim.” She said, “Ei! (an expression of surprise) what are you saying?” I said, “I am no more a Muslim.”

I had a brother, but his house was far. As for that brother, I didn’t like him at all. But after that encounter with Christ, I went to his house. He was someone who likes singing and he was singing and playing music in the house. I knocked. He came to the door, and he said, “why are you here?” “I want to tell you something” I said, “my brother, when you go to church tomorrow pass thru my house, I will go with you.” “What?! I can’t hear what you said.” I repeated myself. He was looking at me and then he started singing and praising God. He prayed with me. I left him and took my bicycle and went to my village. However, at the same time, the landlord’s wife was running to the mallam’s house, and telling Imams that I was possessed. They should try and talk to me.

I took my bicycle and went to Sankpala. My father was there preparing to go to the farm. “Wahab, why are you here at this time?” “Daddy, I have come to tell you something. I have come to tell you I am no longer Muslim I am a Christian. He was like, “what is the problem?” I said, “I just came to tell you because you are my father.” He said, “no problem some friends of mine are Christians when I used to work in town.”

But when I left my father’s place, he told other family members and then the problems started. Those family members told Imams and the Imams would not agree. They influenced my father saying things like, “if Wahab greets you and you respond and you die, you will go to hellfire.” So, my father became afraid. He turned around. When my father would go to mosques, he would tell people that if they see me, they should kill me. I went through a lot during that time. Sometimes, I would be walking in the village, and someone would pass me and give me a slap. When they slapped me, I would say, “God forgive them”. Also, just like Jesus, I said, they do not know what they are doing.

Six months after my conversion they planned to poison me. They put it into a porridge. I went to visit them in the village, and they offered me porridge. Actually, I really like porridge and they knew me well. The woman who gave it to me was a woman I trusted, not knowing she was influenced by the men in the community. They told her, because I have left Islam that when they kill me, heaven is the reward for the one who does it. This influenced her so she put poison in the porridge. As I was stirring it in my bowl. I heard a voice two times, “Do not take the porridge.” But I heard another voice, “If you do not take it, they will think that you are suspecting them.” As I continued stirring. I thought, “Let me just take one spoon so they know I am not rejecting their gift.” When I had the spoon near my mouth, I heard a voice say, “Don’t take it.” but I took just one spoon. Less than 30 minutes later, I began to feel bad. My stomach was rumbling, and I had severe pain. I went to the roadside and got transportation to Tamale. Later on, the pain was terrible and someone took me to the hospital. They put a tube into my stomach for drainage which allowed green stuff to come out. The doctor said they had to get the poison out before it could go all over my body. It was like I died and came back. The doctors treated me special. They wouldn’t let people in to visit except for a brother, we had different mothers but the same father.  He was an Imam, but he respected me and didn’t look down on me. Even now, he is a faithful brother.

The night before they sent me to surgery, I had a dream. I was crying during this dream and had to be tied down. A nurse asked me, “Wahab, what is wrong?” I said, “they are chasing me.” She was a Christian and started praying.  I saw three people; they were like chimpanzees. They were chasing me to arrest me. In the dream I was running calling, “Jesus, Jesus.” As I was running, I came to a wide deep gutter. I couldn’t jump over it. I cried, “JESUS!” and found I was on the other side. The chimpanzees stayed on the other side. The doctor was a white man. He was talking to me as they gave me anesthesia… and then I was out. Poom! I felt something going on, but I didn’t know what was going on. I had no pain. I was operated on and then brought to a recovery room.

A pastor friend explained the dream for me a few days later as I talked with him on the phone. The pastor had a revelation of the meaning of that dream. He wanted to know how I was. My pastor friend asked me, “Wahab what has happened? I saw a revelation of 3 people who wanted to kill you.” So, then I told him the story. He said, “praise the Lord you have overcome!”

After I was discharged, I had to return for dressings until the wounds were healed. I was in high school at that time. I finally recovered and finished high school. In school, I was telling people about Jesus and was doing evangelism. It was only natural that I became an evangelist. I was going from village to village telling people about Christ. Some churches, too, were asking me to come to help those who felt like going to Islam. However, when I shared my testimony about Islam it encouraged them.

I was telling people about Christ and then later that year at Easter there was a program at a Presbyterian church. I was one of the speakers but still a baby Christian! They gave me opportunity to share my testimony – who I was and how I became a Christian. That day about 5-6 Muslims gave their lives to Christ. If I am not mistaken, since that time until now, the Muslims who gave their lives to Christ is more than 50. I have told them all not to go back to Islam.

In the village of Sankpala, they used to hate me, but now they love me. Only a few are those who don’t like me, and the number is not even up to 10. Those who used to slap me are my friends. I not only tell them about Jesus, but my life also speaks to them. They love me because they knew me before when I was stubborn, very stubborn. In fact, even if you were my grandmother, and you do something to me I would get back at you. I would beat people and use my slingshot and use stones to hurt them. Those village people knew me well. At one time when mangoes were ripe, I would steal people’s mangoes and they would chase me. I would take my slingshot and shoot them with stones.

Now they look at me and say, “Ei!” I once went to greet my stepmothers and the head of the family was there. The man said among all my father’s children he thought I would never turn out to be good, but he was surprised. I know this is because I follow Jesus. He used to be against me but now that man, whatever I say, he listens. I can even talk to my father about Jesus.

When I am sitting with my father I would say, “Daddy, how do you see me? when I was a Muslim and now, do you see a difference?  Do you see changes?” He laughs at me and says, “I know what you want me to tell you.” The way I humble myself now compared to before is so different. I respected no one, I had no humility. But he has seen a difference in me. I said that is how Christ has made me and he has changed me. That same Jesus can do that for anybody who gives their life to him. I told him Jesus loves him. My father has made no decision yet.

The woman who gave me the porridge, she later confessed to me. She said my brothers told me to do it, but later she regretted. I told her I have nothing against her. The woman again was nice to me. When I gave my life to Christ, it was not it easy. Even now I go through some challenges because I am a Christian.

One thing I believe is if you are led to talk to someone and they accept Christ, if they do not really accept Him and do not have the Holy Spirit, they will not stand the challenges. I look at myself and I can’t understand how I became a Christian without someone even asking me if I wanted to. Though people did evil things to me, the joy has come. I never felt discouraged to walk away and I have found real joy. It is my understanding that if someone has the Holy Spirit, even when the world is pushed to kill you, you will stand.

When some people look at me, I say look, I am happy in Christ. The joy I am having even when I do not have food to eat, the joy is still there because I have Christ. I believe Jesus no matter what. But when someone follows you without being convinced by the Holy Spirit and the way he lives his life is nice, and they say they accept Christ... hmmmm…discipleship really needs to happen because first you will be their god, not the true God, they will follow you and your message and life but not be convicted by the Spirit. Their faith will not last.

You will really have to work on that person until they understand who Christ is to them. Because when the storms come, that person will not last or when you disappoint them their faith will disappear. I have had many encounters with these people. They decide to follow Jesus and they start going to church. However, when the family comes out and says, “if you don’t leave Christianity, you are not part of the family. Don’t come to us again.”

When this happens often the person will just leave Jesus. Or some of them, when they have needs and they come to you, and are unable to solve the problem they become discouraged. I believe when the Holy Spirit convicts you there is no language you can tell me that will pull me away or make me think negatively about Christianity.

What I want someone to remember from this testimony is that we are not going to remain on this earth, whether we like it or not, we will leave. You cannot just go to heaven without passing thru a way, not just A Way but the Right Way. The right way we are talking about is Jesus Christ. Know then that Jesus is the Way. Yes, without Jesus you can’t have access to heaven.

Locked Out

There is some background info that you need.

1) During the past few days before this experience my car door opener was not working well. I even put in a new battery. Still, when I would click it, nothing would happen. It was annoying.

2) My light (electricity) had been so constant for about 5 months and then…poof! It went back to what it was like before, which was so very very inconsistent.

3) My back door handle has a little knob above the handle that if you turn it, it will lock without having to use the keys to lock the door. I rarely use it because I just turn the keys which I leave in the door. In my front and back door I just leave the keys in the lock.

Ok, now for the story.

It was a Sunday night. I am trying to sleep. My fan slowly stops turning. “Oh, great, my light is off.” I laid there for a bit. I checked the time. It was after 10pm. I started hearing something outside. My water tank was overflowing with water. That is a good thing because the city sometimes shuts the town pipes and you may not get water for 2 weeks! I have a tank that stores water and the water that came that night filled it. But I needed to go and turn the handle on my tank so the water would stop overflowing.

I went towards the back door and turned the handle and I found it was not locked. I had been very diligent in locking my doors, even double checking them, it must have been that weird knob. Anyways, I run out to my tank, shut it off and walked back to the door and the wind started to pick up. The rain usually comes when the wind starts blowing, and then the wind blew my door shut. I go to open it and it is LOCKED!!! NOOOOOOO!!!! That blasted little knob locked!! UGH!!

I assess…I am in boxer shorts and a tank top. I cannot walk in my neighborhood like this. In the world of Tamale that is like being naked. It is late at night. My phone was inside. All articles of appropriate clothing were inside. WHAT DO I DO??? I pray. I calm myself down. I pray more. I go and get the hidden key which I kept outside. I already knew it wouldn’t work. My keys are inside the locks of the doors inside the house. When you put the key in from the outside it will not turn. Both of my doors are locked, and all my windows are barred. There is no way to get in. WHAT DO I DO??? (A quick thought as I looked at my filthy rugs on the ground… could I use it to wrap myself? No, those are too small.)

I prayed. I walked over to my car…I wondered… “did my car doors lock?” I pulled on the handle and VOILA! It was not locked!! I was so excited because I kept an emergency piece of cloth in my car, a wrap skirt. So, I was able to “put some clothes on” (as I type it, I say it in my mom’s voice). That was big relief number one. Grace Grace Grace!

My neighbor across the street had light. Our houses are all weird with the phase of electricity they are on. I do not think there is any rhyme or reason. I went to their house and knocked on their doors. No one answered. I knocked four times. Then I walked down the road a bit and there was a house who also had no electricity, like mine. Two men were sitting outside in chairs talking. Grace Grace Grace! Their rooms were too hot to sit in since they did not have a fan, so they came outside. I went over to them pathetically. I told them my plight. The one guy said, “Let me make a call.”

This is another reason I love Ghana. The craziest problems get solved at any time of day. He calls a friend and within 10 minutes the friend is at my house and they are unscrewing and hammering away at the lock. This is also Grace Grace Grace! The friend tells me he is going to have to destroy the door. I said, “I don’t care just get me back inside!” He tells me he needs to go to his shop for some tools, so he leaves. The wind is picking up and the lightning is coming. I was thinking that if it rains, they will all go home, and I will have to sleep in my car or something. But, he came back! He had a big ol’ crowbar and they again hammered away and pried the lock open. I kept praying and repeating to myself, “God is with me. God is with me.” They were able to break the lock and I got in. And the light came back on. All before the rain came. I was so thankful. So thankful. But, I still felt very under dressed and did not linger, nor did they with the rain coming. It was 11.30pm when I got into my room.

Of course, I couldn’t sleep I was so full of adrenaline and so I called my mom and aunties. They all laughed. I couldn’t laugh about it until the next day when I was able to reflect on all of God’s Grace Grace Grace.

1. I am so thankful my car door key did not work because if my car doors were locked, I would not have had a wrap skirt to cover myself.

2. I am so thankful the light went off. If we would have had light those two men would not have been sitting outside and I would not have had anyone to ask for help.

3. I am so thankful Ghanaians barely sleep (bit of an exaggeration) and that they are willing to come help ridiculous women in distress.

4. I am so thankful for God never leaving me or forsaking me.

The whole next two days I was praising God. In my house, in my car, in prayer times. I was full up! God really took care of me again.

End of the story—My welder came by the next day and went to town and bought me a new handle with locks. He got a door guy to come and fix where they cracked the door. And he also got a guy to come and paint that part of the door. See, these Ghanaians!! I tell you, they can be so helpful.

So much to thank God for! And praise God for Grace Grace Grace.

Orientation

There are so many reasons to love the work God has called me to. I can always look at things in two ways. One, I “have to do” Or two, I can look at it as I “get to do”…Let me share some “get to do” things. I get to use my gifts to serve people. I get to meet new people. I get to travel. I get to encourage and walk alongside fellow believers in Christ. I get to worship with Jesus followers from around the world. I get to teach the Bible. I get to learn a language (or 2!). I get to share what I have learned. I get to wear flip flops everyday. I get to do so many things!

When new people come to Ghana, they go through a long orientation process in Accra. Lots of information is thrown their way, books are suggested to be read, maybe they need vaccinations, they learn about the SIM Ghana team, they figure out the Cedi currency, they meet lots of people, they either thrive or barely survive the humidity and try and hold on to their sanity. Most are so excited and take the whole whirlwind in a stride getting to their place of ministry excited and … not remembering anything :) (Ok, maybe that was just me.)

I love being part of orientation. I love sharing about Ghana, the people, the culture and stories from personal experience or about my amazing friends. I love taking people around. One part of Ghana history that we think is important for people to know about is the slave trade. From my country, we hear the side of the story of slaves being sold when they got off the boats. It is terrible and just as horrific to hear Africa’s side of the story of how they got on the boats.

I won’t go on about it, you can google about it or here is a link. When I have traveled to the far north, I have heard people hear from their ancestors that their people group was nearly wiped out. All that was left were old women and children. In some areas of the north there are still remnants of walls with holes where they could shoot arrows through to combat the slave traders.

Visiting El Mina Castle is a World Heritage Site. It reminds me of what humans can do to other humans. It is a very sobering place. Human nature is wicked and we all need the saving grace of Jesus Christ.

When I lived in Accra, I would bring the new people here. El Mina Castle is about 3 hours from Accra along the coast. People will pay a fee for a tour. They can go into dungeons, jail cells, and a room where the slave holders even had church!

After the time in the castle, before heading back to Accra, the peeps and I have a sit with some food and drink and talk about it. It is kind of like a debrief. Some feel the pain of the castle very personally and they cannot talk about their feelings until they process. Some cannot believe this really happened but have now seen it with their own eyes. And some want to discuss it with Ghanaians. Everyone is different.

Where we sit and eat is alongside the beach and you can see the castle down the way. Here we sit in freedom while only a couple hundred years ago people were shackled up, against their will with barely any food.

I feel I have been on the tour of the castle too many times. Now, I leave people off at the door with their tour guide and wait outside.

This lovely time taking people to the castle was different. Stephen, our amazing SIM office worker, drove us. I did not need to worry about police stopping me for whatever reason. I did not have to concentrate on the road or other obstructions that could be in it. I could ride worry free! I went with Sami and Jeremie. We had a safe ride and good conversations. When we got to the castle Stephen and I left them and did our own exploring.

El Mina is right on the coast. It is a very big fishing city. Stephen was actually looking for some fresh Tilapia to bring home for his family. So, we went looking around. The day was beautiful and sunny. People were out bringing in their catch. People were selling their catch. (Stephen did not find any because they were selling it in bulk.) It was refreshing for me to be at the sea and see this way of life again. Beautiful.

When the guys finished their tour we drove down the road and had a sit to reflect on the information of the tour of El Mina. Also, we ordered some food and enjoyed the sea breeze and soft sand. The day went by so quickly and we had to hop back into the car to beat the Accra traffic in getting home.

One last thing I get, I get freedom, I get to enjoy freedom!! Seeing a place like this you cannot take it for granted.

A New Do

My lovely friend Martha, who I personally think is one of the best hairdressers in Tamale, did my hair for me. It has been years since I have done braids or some sort of style. The weather has just gotten to me. It is so hot i just had to get my hair off my face and neck. I found some pictures on the internet and showed Martha what I wanted. She said she could do it. The days and days of over 100 degrees with another month or so to go and my awkward-growing-out-stage-of-hair, which does not quite reach into a pony tail, flies all over from the wind because my car’s air conditioning is broken. Most often I use a thick band to hold back my hair but the back sort of touches my neck and it just adds to the heat. Whine, whine, whine, I know sorry.

So, I found a braid style that pulled all my curly frizzies away from my face. Ghanaian women can go a couple months with their braided hair style but my slippery, fine hair cannot hold a braid for more than a week. I am hoping for a week. Let’s see…

Martha has apprentices she is training who all watch her and take part in small ways. I had fake hair added to my braids to make it stay in longer. They did not have my color of hair, and yes, I asked if she had grey hahaha but no, so we went with blonde! Hilarious. After she did the two braids up the back to the top and then the two from forehead to top (you will understand when you see the pics) she made a ball with the ends. It looked a bit silly, those endings, the lil’ nub of my hair. Martha asked if I wanted to add some hair and make a big braid. “yeah, why not!” and got a Princess Leia braided bun at the top of my head. It is sewed in to my hair and the other braids.

But what I wanted to be accomplished, has been accomplished. My frizzies and flyaways are tied up. It is wonderful. I have no hair on my neck. Now, I have hit my bun on my car climbing in and out, and the day after the braids were put in I had a headache because they are so tight, but after all that I am happy. And it is always nice to support local women with their own businesses. And of course, it is wonderful just to hang out with the lovely Martha.

Food Options

There are a lot of food options in Tamale. I am not suffering. We have varieties of vegetables like green pepper, lettuce, carrots, bell peppers, and onions. I can even find Almond, Soy, and Lactose Free Milk. I can find many different kinds of chips, and cookies and drinks. Maybe the ice cream is not the best, but there are some flavors. People who lived in Tamale even 10 years ago did not have all these options.

As I continue to live here, I find other sorts of food. Now, most local Ghanaians would not buy the weird milks or the ice cream but more the yams, maize and tomatoes. Vendors sell cooked food, what we would consider fast food, hot and ready to go. I always want to try something if I see something new.

When I came to Ghana way back long ago, Ramen Noodles was the thing. Here they call it Indomie. It was cheap and easy to cook. But then Ghanaians put their own spin on it. They would cook the noodles like spaghetti and drain them. Then they fry them with spices, vegetables, egg, and meat if it is available. I have to say it is SO GOOD, like a stir fry noodles meal.

Well, last week on the street I saw a gal making Indomie with spaghetti noodles which, in my opinion, makes so much sense! Why not? So, I took pictures as she cooked it and it cost me $1.00 (which is a high priced meal now adays). She heats up the oil and fries the egg first. Then she adds the noodles and then spices and veggies and meat. She threw in gizzard which is not my fave but whatever. Lunch is served!

Also, a few days before that, I got the great experience of a drive thru that I made me smile. Samuel and I were driving on our way to a village to go and share a Bible story with a widow. He says to me, “Stop stop.” So, I stop and he says he wants to buy something. Well, this woman, who was walking down the road, comes to his side car window and takes the tray of food off her head to show him so he can buy. It was BUSH RAT. There were several of them all fried stacked on top of each other. Bush rat. WOWZA. Yes, like a rat, but one that stays in the bush. Samuel clarified for me when I was freaking out that this rat has never seen sewage or gutters. It has probably been in the fields for its whole life. Yeah…but still…well, anyways, he loves it and said it is so “sweet” (a word they use to describe not necessarily sweet things but things that taste very good). So, I had to try it. I had to. I have lived in Ghana a long time and never had this opportunity. This was my (gulp) opportunity.

I paid the .70cents for the rat and she put her tray on her head and walked away. I had to hold the thing. I had to figure out how to eat this. I just picked at the legs. My first bite, I saw it was a white meat and it tasted like chicken, or maybe that is what my mind said to me. The second bite was a bit bitter and I decided I did not like it. Or I could say I wanted to be a good Christian and let my brother Samuel enjoy more of it HAHA. And enjoy he did.

I am glad I tried it. Now I know I would rather eat some other sort of meat. 😊 Always an Adventure!

Christmas and Youth Conference 2022

I have to admit. I was not looking forward to Christmas in Tamale. Already weeks before the 25th kids would pass by my house and ask for gifts like, candy or money. Even some adults would ask me to give them a Christmas gift. I know they are just having fun…but after some time it got old and started to grate on my nerves.

Christmas in Wisconsin is wonderful with my family and snow and food and, you know, all the works. I always think I should be used to being away by now, but I don’t think I will ever get used to it.

I am thankful to be where I am. There are just times, just pokes of “aw, it would be nice to be cold.” or yelling, “quit eating the cookies! You will ruin your appetite for dinner.” or “this is exactly what I wanted for Christmas.” or wearing flannel pajamas. Those little moments, I have learned not to dwell on them and know that there will be a time for that another year.

I was thinking that this Christmas I will just deal with it and get it over with. And then Yvonne came. Yvonne is a colleague of mine from the UK. She had some ideas of things to do, and I followed whatever she did.

She had gone to the Catholic church one year when she lived in Tamale and said they do a nice Christmas Eve service, so we went. It was 4 hours long. But really, it was lovely. And I could feel my heart getting into that Christmas spirit. The Christmas story done with youth was hilarious and very Ghanaian. They put their own spin on what that night could have been like. I think it made all of us think about Jesus coming. The choir sang beautifully and some of the songs were traditional Christmas carols. We rolled out of there after 10 pm but so full in our hearts.

With Yvonne around, I had someone to eat breakfast with and linger around the table. I had someone to watch Christmas movies with. I had someone give me a gift!

I had to go to the hospital and Yvonne came with. We brought some food for Silas and three other patients. Yvonne and I prayed with them. What a joy to do it with someone else!

There is a brand new restaurant in town that is pretty snazzy (spell check doesn’t like this word haha). It was a bit expensive, so we shared a meal, and the portion was so big it was a good thing we shared! Also, Yvonne was interested in the building. She just has a way about her and starts talking to the owner who then let us go and see the kitchen. We were able to greet the chef, who is from Ivory Coast, and we told him we enjoyed the meal. We found out they will be having a pastry shop, coffee shop and even an area that sells gelato ice cream in the future. (For real? In Tamale??) Hanging out with Yvonne, you never know who you will meet or what you will do.

Another day with Yvonne we went to a swimming pool. It had high walls around it and cool blue water. Oh, we felt like we were miles away from our dusty city. It was so lovely to read by the pool and dip in the water to cool off when needed.

Both Yvonne and I were helping with the Youth Conference, so she stayed on until then and Penny flew up from Accra. We arrived in Yendi on the 27th and the conference started on the 28th until the 30th. There were more than 300 youth. Penny talked about “The Gospel” and remaining in Jesus. It was soooooo good. Yvonne spoke about how your work is worship to God; whether you are a student, or having a job, whatever you do should glorify God. Charity spoke on the practicality of the Gospel and being a sponge. You soak up what you are near. If you are around nasty things, you will soak up the smell and when you are squished out it will smell. But if you are soaking up good things, when you are squished it will come out and smell good. She said it a whole lot better than what I just said. Penny ended her talk saying if you are saved you need to be sent. So, I led a time where we put up maps of 10 different countries where there are unreached people and put prayer requests on the walls. They were to go to a country and pray for it. We had handouts also for them to take with.

Side Note—I was just talking with my friend about unreached people groups. There are 19 tribes in Ghana that are unreached. He said, “This is the first I have ever heard of it. Let’s go to those places.” If only more of us would say that.

The conference ended with a question-and-answer time and youth then went back to their cities.

New Year’s Eve is a big deal in Ghana. A new start. A new year for new plans and people want to start it out right with God. I went to a church and enjoyed the singing and the time for sharing what God has done in the year. The pastor shared a good message on being prepared. It could be this year that Jesus comes back, Are you ready? And then they had a prayer time to bring in the new year. It was a nice time, though, my body does not like staying up so late and I did not go to church in the morning. (Please, still be my friend! Don’t judge😊!) I watched an online service and napped throughout the next day.

I had to start thinking about putting my Christmas decorations away and looking at lessons for the next month. I needed to catch up on emails and send out a newsletter. I needed to clean my house since I gave my house helper time off for the holidays. I had some petty petty things that needed to be done and some larger things that needed to be done. I still had Yvonne and sometimes Penny still at my house too. But I never felt stressed. I never felt time-crunched. I never felt “I am done with this holiday”. I just kept at it and went with the flow, and enjoyed every day. Doesn’t that sound lovely?

It really was. I am so thankful! I told Yvonne she can spend every Christmas with me.  

Airport Excursion

I smile when I use the word “excursion”. I don’t know if I ever used it growing up. I guess we would use the phrase, “field trip” if we were doing an outing for school or something. And this was like a field trip with my Bible study ladies and widows. We needed to have something fun to do together and celebrate Christmas.

We heard of school groups touring the Tamale Airport, which is very small, and thought maybe the women would like to see an airplane up close. It seemed that they do a short tour and see some things. We thought that would be perfect.

But things never go the way you think they will, eh? I left the house at 7.30am to pick up 4 women. Samuel was with the driver of the trotro, a large van, going to Tingoli to pick up all the other ladies. I was so thankful everyone was on time and I met the trotro at the airport junction just as one last woman, who lives on that side of town, was arriving. It was perfect. We drove into the parking lot of the airport before 10am and there I saw two buses and another trotro. Unbeknownst to us, three groups of school children also made plans to see the airport. Samuel and I hurried inside to try and get our group started before the others but, alas, they put us all into one big group.

They started us outside on the tarmac. Already the sun was hot and we were cooking out on the runway. The children and teachers were very kind and respectful but the man talking about the airplanes had to do it twice. And because the group was so big I know some ladies did not hear all the information. We were not able to see a plane land but as people were getting off the plane we were able to stand on the runway and watch them. We were able to walk up to the plane and take pictures. Some of my ladies had phones and they were snapping away. I think the best part of the day was watching the ladies when the plane took off! They were amazed and even more amazed that by the time it would take to get them back to Tingoli, the flight would arrive in Accra, 270 miles away. We would have liked to go inside the airplane and sit down, as I had heard other groups have done, but since our group was so big, we did not have time. (And also not enough seats!)

We were invited to go and tour the new Tamale International Airport. I have not heard much about this new airport that is to open in 2023 but we were up for it, thinking it would be a, “here-it-is-look-around-now-go-home sort of thing. This part of the tour actually ended up being the long part.

We got back into our buses and trotros and I went to my car and it was pointed out that my tire was flat. Grrr…I decided to leave it until we returned, which should not be too long, right? All the vehicles made their way to the new airport. The place looked all white and spiffy. The man loved telling us about all the CCT security cameras. I think every room we went in he would mention it. We did get to see where they look at all the cameras and one student was able to make a message on the loud speaker that “the plane will be boarding soon”. It was difficult for all of us to go in certain places at once because we were just too many. So, they did it in groups, which is understandable, but it really took time. We had to wait for our turn and some places there was no place to sit down. By noon the ladies were tired and hungry. Some of them had their children with them and they were crying.

Samuel and I were like let’s just go. But we felt that would be rude AND I could not really go in their trotro because I came to the new airport with a different car the students used because of my flat tire. But finally, the tour ended. I do think the school children loved every minute of it so that was good. But it seemed like when we returned to the airport, and I took out my women who were to go in my car, the trotro burned rubber outta there. :) Samuel had a place organized where they would get packs of food and drinks on the way home.

Unfortunately, for my ladies, they had to wait. It seemed my spare tire was jammed down in my trunk area. No man could pull it out. I have never had this problem before. So, the men around me took my tire off, drove me to a fitter who fixed it, drove me back to my car, and put the tire back on. In the meantime, THANKFULLY, I bought packs of food for my ladies before we arrived at the airport and they were sitting in the shade looking comfortable, though I am sure they were tired too. Finally, around 2:30pm we left and I was able to drop them all off. I enjoyed the laughter in my car as I drove. I don’t know what they were talking about but I was proud to serve them in this way.

I drove home with a full heart and tired body.

Samuel called me later that evening. He said the ladies talked about the excursion in the trotro on the way home. They were very thankful to see all those things. They thought it was a bit long but they enjoyed the day. They are so kind. I was wiped out! I laid on the sofa that evening and watched a Christmas movie.

I am really grateful that it went well. Even with the long day, the flat tire, and hot weather. We were together, laughed, got some good pics, and were away from our normal environments. It was a blessing.




P.S. One last thing, the tour guide at the airport…his name was (and I am not making this up) Larrious. As in, hil…never mind. It is funny to me :)

INDIA part 2

From the Northeastern region of India to the Southwestern region of India. From Aizawl to Mumbai with a layover in Kolkata.

In Mumbai, I went to visit my friend Jane and her family. I met Jane, an American gal, in Ghana. She was teaching at an international school in Accra. A group of us started hanging out and some of us even had Bible studies together. It was interesting to meet foreigners working, volunteering, researching, and serving in Ghana. After a few years, Jane moved to Mumbai to work at an international school but has been supporting me here.

She met her husband Viren a few years later and they married. They have two kids. When I knew I was going to India I knew I would need to see this girl! We figured it must be about 14 years since we have seen each other. I only planned to be with them for two days because of all my travels, but also, they were going to go on a holiday.

I flew down on a Friday and that gave us Saturday for me to see the sites. Jane took me to cool parts of the city. We tried to cram so many things in because I was flying out the next night. I saw old cathedrals, a historic train station, British influenced buildings/homes, ate delicious foods, shopped at markets, sat in traffic, saw the sea, and her family. The next day was Sunday and we had breakfast at a yummy place and then headed to church. I felt like their church, Avatar, fit me like a glove. It was very international, I knew some of the songs, the message was right out of the Word, and people were so friendly.

My flight was that night, so I headed to the airport. I was so thankful for the quick, but sweet time with Jane and her family. At the airport, I checked in, went through security, and then came to immigration. Remember in part 1 where I was told to register? Well, the immigration man looks at my visa and says, “where is your registration?”

Me- I think I registered.

Immigr—where is it?

Me—I registered in Aizawl.

Immigr—where is it?

Me- they took it.

Immigr—you need to come with me.

So, he led me to the Bureau of Immigration. My first thoughts were, “this is so cool, I never got pulled out of line before. This is kind of exciting!” Seriously… I am a dork.

I stood outside the office and one or two men casually asked me questions of my travels. They asked why I didn’t register. I said I tried but then thought when I wrote it down in Aizawl that was enough. I was thankful I came to the airport early because they would talk to me and then make me wait. Time was getting close to boarding the plane. One man then brought a paper and took down my answers to my questions. He needed to know who I worked with and my Ghanaian address. Then I was getting nervous.

While waiting again, I asked a man what is going on? He said they don’t allow visitors to Mizoram. They are too close to the Burma border. There have been insurgencies going on. I was like, “whaaaaat?!” (Looking back I am not sure how true that is, but there are border issues with India.)

Well, I realized I needed to leave soon so I could get to my flight. The big man came to me and said, “You need to register. We will escort you out of the airport. You can register and then come back in.” I asked about my luggage and they said they will offload it and bring it to me. At this point my brain was in slow motion. “Like…no flying today? Where do I go?”

Now things were not going the right way. And…to keep things going in the wrong way, my phone was broken. The SIM tray that holds your SIM card broke and I just thought I would get it fixed in Ghana. During my processing of all this information, a kind man came to talk to me. He asked if I was really a missionary and I nodded. He told me he is a Christian and wanted to hear my experience and testimony. I was happy he was so kind and a believer, but I was shaking, thinking about my new situation. I couldn’t think. I just said something like I love Jesus and I try and serve him the best I can. I could not think beyond that. He was nice and smiley and I remember thinking, “I wonder if he really thinks I am a Christian with that sort of testimony.” He then said casually, “just register right now and figure it out.” I looked at him, trying not to tear up, and said, “my phone is broken. I cannot make any calls, I cannot connect to any Wi-Fi.” He let me use his phone and again I tried to register, and it wouldn’t submit. It felt hopeless. (I tried to register with Damary in Delhi many weeks ago also.)

I had to give them my boarding pass and visa, which they lovingly stamped cancelled on. I had to go back out with the aid of two men. Really, the men looked like they were 20 years old wearing their dad’s suits. But they were kind and we had to wait for my luggage at the check in. I sat down, refusing to let the tears flow. I settled it my mind that I would camp out at the airport for the night and try and register tomorrow and then fly again. Simple.

But how would I let anyone know? I asked one of my “escorts” how I could get Wi-Fi if my phone doesn’t have a SIM card. One graciously let me connect onto his Wi-Fi. Maybe these boys weren’t as young as I thought😊. So, with that bit of Wi-Fi, I called my director in Ghana and told her and then asked if she could pass a message to let some of my family know. I messaged Damary. I messaged Jane. Thankfully, Jane called me immediately. She was asking what is going on and telling me I cannot stay at the airport. Viren got on the phone too asking and then telling me he would come and get me. Then…the tears flowed…I sobbed with relief. I had enough money to get a taxi back to their apartment. I still had to wait a bit for my bags. When they came, they walked me out of the airport. They kicked me to the curb! Just kidding. They were very professional. Yet, I remember thinking, “if I was in Ghana, they would have helped carry my bags.”

So, I got a taxi, by this time it must be 11:30pm or so on Sunday evening. Thankfully, the driver had Wi-Fi and I gave him Jane’s address and he used google maps to get there. Thankfully, Jane and Viren were right alongside me trying to figure out what comes next. Thankfully, I used a travel agent from Wisconsin who could change my ticket and so it was not cancelled. Thankfully, I had Wi-Fi at their home and I could talk to peeps from home and Damary.

It was interesting because no one had ever heard of this happening. I had a single-entry tourist visa. It did not expire until November 6, and it was only October 23rd. None of us could see the problem. While back at Jane’s I tried the registration AND I GOT THROUGH!!! But I knew I needed to go to the FRRO.

A couple more things still were not going the right way for me. #1- Monday was a holiday. The FRRO would be closed. #2 I still don’t have a phone number to call anyone outside of wifi. #3 Viren, Jane and the kids were leaving for a family holiday that morning. Thankfully, they let me stay in their apartment. Thankfully, they let me use their driver to go to the office. Thankfully, they had food in their fridge. Thankfully, I still had some money left over. Thankfully, Viren gave me a phone to put my India SIM card in. Thankfully, it would be just a day or two…so I thought.

On Monday when I went to the office, no one was there. Yes, holiday, I know, but I just wanted to be sure. Tuesday, I went back to the office. The man behind the desk looked at my visa and said I need an exit permit. He said there is a man outside who can help you. I did find the man outside. He told me some documents I would need to get. I asked if he could do it and he told me to go to a cybercafe. I tried the cybercafe but again I couldn’t get into the FRRO registration. I just said forget it and left…again determined not to cry. I stopped at a few shops for them to see if they could fix my phone. They said they could get a SIM card tray in 1-2 days, but I didn’t think I would still be here in that time…so I thought.

Wednesday, I submitted several documents for this exit permit on the registration site. I googled “exit permit” and it was for people who have overextended their visa. This was not me! And they wanted a document that showed proof of residence. I DON’T LIVE HERE!!! I was so angry. I was annoyed. I felt so helpless. Jane and Viren sent me texts and other numbers of friends while they were away. I tried using Jane’s info that she texted to me, but they did not accept that on documents either. And now it is getting to Thursday and Friday. Viren’s hospitable parents invited me over for two meals that week. They only lived a short walk away. I also went to a prayer meeting with his mom. It hit the spot. A young man talked about being thankful and rejoicing thru all circumstances. I was more on the complaining side. I needed to remember all the blessings I had.

I was thinking of my American-privileged-self. I live in a world where I am surprised when things go wrong. I just expect things to go my way and when they don’t, I expect people to make things go the way I want. So many people in the world don’t live like that. They are always at the mercy of people above them. So, I am trying to remember how good I have it.

Jane mentioned different places nearby that if I felt like it, I could walk to. I did that. One was a tea shop. Another one was a praise and worship night at their church. I didn’t know if I felt up for it. But as Friday evening was fast approaching and they rejected another proof of residence document that I sumbitted, I had to go…otherwise, I would drown myself with a tub of ice cream and watch Hallmark movies on Netflix which would all leave regret on my waistline. I went to the worship night. That worship night was beautiful and fun. I saw people using creative arts to praise God like using banners, or dance, coloring, or painting. I got to praise God in Hindi!

During the night, one woman came to me. Her name is Preeti. She asked if I was Jane’s friend. I said yes, the one having the visa issues. She asked about it. I told her and told her that I would go to the office again. She offered to come with me. I agreed.

Saturday morning, my third time to the FRRO, Preeti was with me, and I was so less stressed. I brought my laptop with me. She told me she doesn’t know anything about this sort of thing but maybe having a local person would help. Oh, boy, it helped!! I connected my laptop to her phone Wi-Fi and we started filling out the registration there. If there was a problem, she would take the laptop and ask the man behind the desk to clarify. Even she, herself, was frustrated with the questions and ways to enter them in the system. The form that I needed for the proof of residence was actually a separate form on a separate website! There was no link, no information regarding that!! Ohhh goodness, I would have never found that.

Then, instead of using Jane’s info we used Viren’s, since he is an Indian. They were on their way back to Mumbai after their trip and here I am stressing them out to send this or send that. Goodness… well, a man, who was very helpful for Preeti came over to us. He asked to look at my passport and see the visa. He looked and said, “oh, you have traveled to Pakistan.”

Me- No. Never.

Man- Well, this is a visa for someone who has traveled to Pakistan.

Me- *** bright lights*** ding! ding! ding!

It made sense to me now. This is why there was so much confusion. I have a visa that shows immigration that I have been to Pakistan. India and Pakistan are deep enemies.

Well, Preeti was able to submit the form!! Then I had to pay. Guess what? It did not go. The man said to try until tomorrow. So, we were able to leave. We both had a festival of griping in the car at the system and the forms and the visa. Ridiculous. But then I turned my mind to thankfulness. I had so much to be thankful for even though at this point the payment wasn’t going thru. I went and pulled cash out of the ATM to pay Viren and he used his card to pay the fee. It didn’t go thru until 11pm. But, I am thankful it went!

     You know…the man in the India High Commission in Ghana did tell me to register. Twice. It is my fault. I just was ignorant of what that really meant. Anyways…

So, I just needed to wait again. During this week of crazy, I would call Damary and keep her updated. She felt so bad because I came to India for her blah, blah, blah…I told her that was ridiculous. I had the best trip of my life because she invited me to India! Her and Akru were now in Nagaland with his family.

Jane and Viren and the kids had to start their normal lives on Monday and I decided to take a trip to the market. I was feeling so free, so rid of my burden because I knew I submitted everything and just had to wait. Oh, I did buy a phone too. I couldn’t hack it anymore. While heading to the market, I got an email saying my permit is ready and I can fly out. Talk about a sigh of relief!

I texted Preeti, I texted Jane, I texted Viren. I texted my family. I called Damary. Lots of rejoicing! I called the airlines and I had to pay a little bit more for my ticket but there was one available on Tuesday. And Jane decided to take a personal day and we would hang out. So Sweet!!

So the day I left Jane and I took a long walk thru her suburb. We ended up at a fish market and then some small streets led us to a cute coffee shop. We carried on looking at the different styles of housing and foods on the streets. I saw cows just wandering along. Hindu religion believes cows are sacred. There was a woman selling potatoes which you could buy and then feed to the cows. In Mumbai, there is actually a beef ban. No beef sold.

We walked our way to Viren’s burger restaurant. I know I just said no beef, but these burgers are WATER BUFFALO BEEF burgers. And they were so good! I could not tell the difference.

That evening I showered, packed, and headed back to the airport. When I got to the immigration, the man looked at me and said, “What did you do?” I said, “I did not register.” He nodded and nicely talked about why they have procedures and how we all have to follow them. He said he hopes that even though I had problems I would come back. I said I would.

I made it! I made it back to Ghana! A crazy ride that lasted an extra week. I hope I won’t ever have to repeat that.

One last thing… why did the man in Accra at the Indian High Commission give me a visa that is for visiting Pakistan? I have a couple answers from people I have talked to.

1— A couple foreigners in Mumbai mentioned they are having issues with their visa or it is difficult for family to visit them because India is not handing visas out. So, that makes me wonder if, in Accra, there were no visas and he just gave me one that was available. Is that why he emphasized why I needed to register?

2—One person said Indians do not like missionaries. The man wanted to give me a hard time.

3—One person said there are issues at the borders and for you to have been there is very suspicious and also you are not coming from the USA which is your passport country but you are coming from an African country

I am going to go with answer number 1. I think the best of people and I am thankful the man in the Accra Indian office gave me a visa, even if it caused me problems. I am thankful Damary invited me and also Jane taking care of me. I am so thankful to my director who allowed me to take off work. I am thankful for all the safety along the way. I am thankful for people who were praying, and I am thankful for friends around the world!